Say something nice about a member you tend to "oppose"...

Started by Sharon., May 11, 2016, 07:55:16 AM

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MelMel

Quote from: Nice Stereo. on May 11, 2016, 03:12:12 PM
Quote from: Kurama on May 11, 2016, 03:11:22 PM
bbfgfg

I love the way Vonc's black durag matches his pistol.

SDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDSDDDDDDDDDDDDDMNMNMNMNMNMNMNMNMNMNMNMNMN

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

GRAND


Mel.

ad the fact that the gorls have to be TOLD to say something nice
says A LOT.

RatherBe

The only thing that I don't like is that in order to seem like this person who is so REAL... Mel has to call everything so phony and fake.. Like sis... Who made you the dictator of what's real and what's not...

I don't not like her I just like for people to see their contradictions.. That's honestly the way that I learned, people had to show me. That's it.



Vonc2002

Quote from: haitian krey?l on May 11, 2016, 03:06:45 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 11, 2016, 02:59:07 PM
Quote from: haitian krey?l on May 11, 2016, 01:52:41 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:48:25 PM
Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 01:43:57 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:42:14 PM
Welp. There goes that

did you expect anything else? lol

Tbh no. I kinda agree with your post. You don't have to say nice things if you don't like the person. It kinda feels forced and isn't coming from a real place. At most at least be cordial towards one another.
This is all assuming that there is a genuine dislike for the person. As opposed to a clashing of personalities or opinion. Many people on here are on/off through disagreement. I cannot say there are many people on here who genuinely hate each other.

I can kii with Yumz and Kur one minute, and be ready to straggle them the next. Same with Mel, same with Vonc. Same with Bent.

There's nothing wrong with taking time to recognize the good things about them, instead of spending all the time pointing out where they were wrong, or where they lack. I think this is a great thread.

I meant everything I typed.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I dont hate anyone on here, it aint that damn deep
I could tell that you didn't dislike me. We had our little disagreement and it went downhill from there. And I think that was more on my part, a misinterpretation of something you said, being on the defensive led me to lash at you a bit. I've always been very sensitive and serious about my quest to know who I am. And in that spirit, you were attacked with no merit.

And being the stubborn person that I can be, I didn't admit that I may have been wrong in my interpretation of your question. Even way down the line when it clicked that "Hey, Vonc may have been asking a genuine question and not throwing shade." But I will say now that I was wrong and I am sorry. You never had an issue with me and we were always usually here >><< on a lot of things until I took something the wrong way.

:wub: :wub:
You know what, I genuinely do appreciate this afro because I honestly never had an issue with u until that day. Im someone who's pretty vocal when im at odds with someone so i thought the whole thing was left field. up until that point we had always been very cool and I really wasnt trying to be sideways.......that day, every other day after that yea maybe lolz. I  really did feel the sincerity here, thank u.
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Mel.

"lemme appreciate you today, but tell you that I want you to die tomorrow"

it's weird, I'm sorry....

GRAND

Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 03:16:59 PM
ad the fact that the gorls have to be TOLD to say something nice
says A LOT.
because these are people you don't particularly CARE for

Would you randomly compliment Keith?

What don't get you?

:kii:  :kii: :kii:

Vonc2002

Quote from: GLOCK for MOD 2016 on May 11, 2016, 03:09:23 PM
You can always tell when a girl is in pursuit for attention that they are LACKING at home
I agree. If ur positive and dont see the benefit in all this, just leave the thread. Why sit in here and shit on what everybody else is doing, weird tbh
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Vonc2002

Quote from: Kurama on May 11, 2016, 03:11:22 PM
bbfgfg

I love the way Vonc's black durag matches his pistol.
sdssddssdds
didnt think u noticed :stressed:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





b7

Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 03:15:40 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 11, 2016, 03:09:00 PM
Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 03:06:01 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 11, 2016, 03:04:21 PM
who in here said we gon be besties? just because we can recognize positive attributes about someone and voice them, we're attempting to be bffs? some of ya'll just WHEW

hun...
I just see a lot of phoniness on this board

that's my opinion...let me have it.
where's the phoniness? surely it isnt in us voicing what someone's positives characteristics are. I dont think anyone in here said we should all go out to dinner. u cant respect qualities about someone without them being your bestfriend?

the phoniness is threads like this...
it just screams fake to me....yall say these nice things about each other

just to read and say nasty things about each other the following day.
the concept is weird to me...
people are choosing to focus on the positive, coerced or not

Try and Go back to the Mel that would appreciate something like that no matter how many times you've seen this kind of thread take a turn.

b7

Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 11, 2016, 03:18:19 PM
Quote from: haitian krey?l on May 11, 2016, 03:06:45 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 11, 2016, 02:59:07 PM
Quote from: haitian krey?l on May 11, 2016, 01:52:41 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:48:25 PM
Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 01:43:57 PM
Quote from: Zinc on May 11, 2016, 01:42:14 PM
Welp. There goes that

did you expect anything else? lol

Tbh no. I kinda agree with your post. You don't have to say nice things if you don't like the person. It kinda feels forced and isn't coming from a real place. At most at least be cordial towards one another.
This is all assuming that there is a genuine dislike for the person. As opposed to a clashing of personalities or opinion. Many people on here are on/off through disagreement. I cannot say there are many people on here who genuinely hate each other.

I can kii with Yumz and Kur one minute, and be ready to straggle them the next. Same with Mel, same with Vonc. Same with Bent.

There's nothing wrong with taking time to recognize the good things about them, instead of spending all the time pointing out where they were wrong, or where they lack. I think this is a great thread.

I meant everything I typed.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I dont hate anyone on here, it aint that damn deep
I could tell that you didn't dislike me. We had our little disagreement and it went downhill from there. And I think that was more on my part, a misinterpretation of something you said, being on the defensive led me to lash at you a bit. I've always been very sensitive and serious about my quest to know who I am. And in that spirit, you were attacked with no merit.

And being the stubborn person that I can be, I didn't admit that I may have been wrong in my interpretation of your question. Even way down the line when it clicked that "Hey, Vonc may have been asking a genuine question and not throwing shade." But I will say now that I was wrong and I am sorry. You never had an issue with me and we were always usually here >><< on a lot of things until I took something the wrong way.

:wub: :wub:
You know what, I genuinely do appreciate this afro because I honestly never had an issue with u until that day. Im someone who's pretty vocal when im at odds with someone so i thought the whole thing was left field. up until that point we had always been very cool and I really wasnt trying to be sideways.......that day, every other day after that yea maybe lolz. I  really did feel the sincerity here, thank u.
:stressed:

God is everything. Y'all have always been cool

Ack!

Kurama

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No seriously though, I think everyone I have been at odds with is pretty intelligent, passionate and outspoken (Herb,Vonc, Drais; even 'Man & Yumz). I'm not going to go back and forth with a fool unless Im bored lolz.

I think it really just depends on how invested either party is about the particular topic and the intent behind the messages that are being conveyed during the debate. I can drag and get dragged and still have respect and admiration for someone if the sincerity and respect is there afterward.

I don't get this from everyone here or everyone I mentioned so I can't really say specific positive statements the way I'd like to.

Mel.

Quote from: GRAND on May 11, 2016, 03:19:34 PM
Quote from: Mel. on May 11, 2016, 03:16:59 PM
ad the fact that the gorls have to be TOLD to say something nice
says A LOT.

What don't get you?

:kii:  :kii: :kii:

threads like this.

MelMel


MelMel

oh wait except for the French faggot. He can go to hell. But I respect him for advertising his flop blog. Shows determination.