People usually gravitate towards me because of my personality before anything
from a young age my mom really pushed us to the front of things, so I'm used to everybody knowing me or being naturally outgoing. People say nice guys finish last, but it's really a perspective thing.
I'm usually that person saying hi to ppl, making a joke, trying to do nice gestures like holding the door, kinda like that Dos Equis guy
it does throw some ppl who are standoffish for a loop, those are the ppl that it really takes a minute to warm up to. but I understand it takes time to realize if someone is a genuinely nice person.
I also don't treat everyone the same, I try to find a personal connection with each person, everybody deserves to feel special imo
I'm told I give off a trustworthy vibe, so they're aren't many ppl that don't hit it off with me on first meeting.
Unless they/me have a reason to have issues
