Quote from: L0NZ. on January 03, 2020, 09:00:20 AM
I don't think they realized her innocence needed protection.
That's a parent's job, though. At all times.
It'd be one thing if Aaliyah were a boy, but girls didn't dress like men and wear their jewelry unless it meant something romantic. A teen girl calling a grown man a best friend is abnormal. How could that not make a parent go
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Dude had a hypersexual musical persona and their daughter was (in their minds) a "sexy" young girl who strongly admired him. Anyone looking at them (the fans, media) felt there was something going on. I just don't see how they could be that oblivious. The idea that no one knew he was a monster isn't true. People in Chicago knew about his habits of hanging around young girls, in high school parking lots, etc. If they were around Aaliyah enough in the studio, they had to have seen or heard something.
Best case scenario, IMO, is that they knew there was an attraction between them but thought he wouldn't dare cross a line because of Barry, or some other reason. And Aaliyah wouldn't cross a line because she was their good girl daughter. So they allowed the inappropriate mess because if he was attracted to her, they thought it meant he would ultimately help her career, so why not exploit it? Maybe they thought only "fast" girls would do something like that.
In that article her dad had after the marriage became public, he made it seem like Diane and Barry did things to put Li at risk, and that he put his foot down to protect her after that when he took more of an active role. That was when Li started going everywhere with bodyguards.
Either way, I feel horrible for Aaliyah and I wish people were around her to protect her and prioritize that over everything else.